Building Up From Concept Living Experience

Failure is something that is often experienced by reasonable people to achieve something. Failures often occur because of errors from the concept of self. Often we view ourselves and others completely negative. From the perspective of a danger to other people we will trigger two extreme attitudes that can harm your own comment. First, the passive attitude that is not firmly in the conduct of various actions akibata fear of making other people resent, or feel governed digurui feel that will make them hate us and squeeze out. The specificity is the key discipline that is essential for the success of capital and our activities. Both aggressive attitude, compelling ideas, does not want to receive input from other people and tend to invite debate disbanding resolve problems. In attitude and ignore the idea-iide other means menghambatkan achieve the right decision and accurate. It also means that harm their own comment, and other organizations where we want to still exist inside With that we can build Self Esteem with the way the self and not arrogant but always have a positive feeling. If we think something can happen it will happen because of the actions that we make happen. The reasoning is this positive attitude to encourage optimism, spirited pememang, courage mengahdapi challenges and risks. Improve the quality of interpersonal relationships in a way, the crisis of our personality as minder, is not useful, pessimistic, the support of other people are needed. Bersilaturahmilah, increase familiarity with our friends and relatives and ask kritk and tausiyah will encourage us to understand what must be false. Berorganisasilah, we can forge the vision and menmukan positive figures, the warm relationship sosisal increasing the spirit of life. Change the way to communicate. Speech like a sword, if not careful will menebasnya, so change the way communication self (the self-talk) with negative expression change into a positive expression: